{"id":1177,"date":"2019-02-14T11:11:01","date_gmt":"2019-02-14T09:11:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/?p=1177"},"modified":"2023-03-27T17:53:42","modified_gmt":"2023-03-27T15:53:42","slug":"uz-laisve-myleti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/en\/2019\/02\/14\/uz-laisve-myleti\/","title":{"rendered":"U\u017e laisv\u0119 myl\u0117ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1177\" class=\"elementor elementor-1177\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8f40c82 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8f40c82\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-51cd673\" data-id=\"51cd673\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5e56b67 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5e56b67\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.12.1 - 02-04-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size:12.499999999999998pt;font-family:Arial;color:#7a7a7a;background-color:transparent;font-weight:400;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre;white-space:pre-wrap;\">2019-02-14<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><br><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size:12.499999999999998pt;font-family:Arial;color:#7a7a7a;background-color:transparent;font-weight:400;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre;white-space:pre-wrap;\">\u0160iandien minime \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0117li\u0173 dien\u0105 \u2013 \u0161luojam i\u0161 prekybos centr\u0173 g\u0117li\u0173 puok\u0161tes, vaik\u0161tom \u012f romanti\u0161kus pasimatymus ir dovanojam vieni kitiems sald\u017eias dovanas. Ta\u010diau visoje \u0161ioje \u0161irdeli\u0173 j\u016broje pamir\u0161tame, kad ne visos Lietuvos poros gali lygiaverti\u0161kai d\u017eiaugtis laisve myl\u0117ti. Taigi kada, jei ne per meil\u0117s dien\u0105, geriausia kalb\u0117ti apie civilin\u0117s partneryst\u0117s poreik\u012f?<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><br><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size:12.499999999999998pt;font-family:Arial;color:#7a7a7a;background-color:transparent;font-weight:400;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre;white-space:pre-wrap;\">Homoseksuali\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 pad\u0117tis visuomen\u0117je visada buvo kontraversi\u0161kas klausimas, da\u017enai palydimas ne faktais ar argumentais, o papras\u010diausiai emocijomis. Da\u017enai i\u0161 LGBT jud\u0117jimo oponent\u0173 pasigirsta tokios fraz\u0117s, kaip \u201etegul tie g\u0117jai daro k\u0105 nori, kas jiems trukdo, svarbu tegul nesirodo\u201c. Tokiais momentais labai svarbu pabr\u0117\u017eti, jog civilin\u0117s partneryst\u0117s palaikymas \u2013 ne ka\u017ekoki\u0173 papildom\u0173 teisi\u0173 noras ar siekis b\u016bti i\u0161keltiems auk\u0161\u010diau kit\u0173 visuomen\u0117s grupi\u0173. Tai, elementariai, priemon\u0117, kuri u\u017etikrint\u0173, jog visos poros prie\u0161 \u012fstatym\u0105 b\u016bt\u0173 lygiavert\u0117s, diskusija \u010dia ir tur\u0117t\u0173 suktis apie lygyb\u0119, o ne vienos grup\u0117s i\u0161k\u0117lim\u0105 vir\u0161 kitos. Nors Lietuva su laiku darosi vis labiau toleranti\u0161ka homoseksuali\u0173 asmen\u0173 at\u017evilgiu, \u0161imtai por\u0173 vis dar neturi galimybi\u0173 teisi\u0161kai reglamentuoti savo santykius. Nesitiki, kad \u0161is scenarijus i\u0161 21-ojo am\u017eiaus Europos S\u0105jungos valstyb\u0117s.<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><br><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size:12.499999999999998pt;font-family:Arial;color:#7a7a7a;background-color:transparent;font-weight:400;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre;white-space:pre-wrap;\">Ar kada pagalvojote, su kokiomis problemomis susiduria poros, kurios prie\u0161 \u012fstatym\u0105 nepripa\u017e\u012fstamos kaip \u0161eima? Ir visai nesvarbu, jei partneriai gyvena kartu nors ir dvide\u0161imtmet\u012f, oficialiai jie traktuojami kaip du atskiri asmenys, kuri\u0173 nesieja jokie ry\u0161iai. Kitaip tariant, j\u0173 interesai negali b\u016bti atstovaujami bendrai, \u0161eimos institutas j\u0173 negina. Lietuva, nepripa\u017eindama homoseksuali\u0173 por\u0173 kaip \u0161eimos, atima i\u0161 ilgame\u010di\u0173 partneri\u0173 tokius, rodos, \u012fprastus dalykus, kaip teis\u0119 \u012f palikim\u0105 ar teis\u0119 gauti informacij\u0105 apie savo partner\u012f. I\u0161tikus nelaimei ir vienam i\u0161 poroje esan\u010di\u0173 asmen\u0173 esant kritin\u0117je b\u016bkl\u0117je, informacij\u0105 apie j\u012f gali gauti tik \u0161eimos nariai. \u0160eimos, kuri m\u016bs\u0173 suvokimu sudaroma tik i\u0161 vyro ir moters. Homoseksualioms poroms nelygiaverti\u0161kai taikomos ir socialin\u0117s garantijos \u2013 vieno i\u0161 partneri\u0173 ligos ar mirties atveju, jeigu jis yra apdraustas, kitas asmuo negali pasinaudoti jo draudimo fondu ar gauti na\u0161lyst\u0117s pensij\u0105. Mes galime nepritarti, tur\u0117ti skepti\u0161k\u0105 nuomon\u0119 ties LGBT jud\u0117jimu, bet ar s\u0105\u017eininga tokiems pat Lietuvos pilie\u010diams u\u017ekirsti keli\u0105 \u012f or\u0173 bei patog\u0173 gyvenim\u0105?<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><br><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size:12.499999999999998pt;font-family:Arial;color:#7a7a7a;background-color:transparent;font-weight:400;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre;white-space:pre-wrap;\">\u201e\u0160eima yra visuomen\u0117s ir valstyb\u0117s pagrindas\u201c \u2013 ra\u0161oma Konstitucijoje. Prisidengdami \u0161ia eilute, dauguma LGBT jud\u0117jimo oponent\u0173 pasisako prie\u0161 lygias teises homoseksualiems asmenims. B\u016btent d\u0117l to vis dar gyvename su po\u017ei\u016briu, kad \u0161eim\u0105 reikia saugoti nuo neb\u016bt\u0173 pavoj\u0173. Toks populistinis m\u0105stymas skaldo visuomen\u0119, sudaro neai\u0161kias iliuzijas ir i\u0161 homoseksuali\u0173 por\u0173 stato gr\u0117sm\u0119 tradicin\u0117ms \u0161eimoms. Tuo tarpu min\u0117toji ma\u017euma tiesiog nori lygi\u0173 teisi\u0173. Taip paprastai. Visai neseniai Konstitucinis teismas nusprend\u0117, kad Lietuva turi pripa\u017einti u\u017esienyje sudarytas tos pa\u010dios lyties santuokas, taip pat pabr\u0117\u017e\u0117, kad \u0161eimos samprata yra neutrali lyties po\u017ei\u016briu. Tai didelis \u017eingsnis pirmyn, ir nors sprendimas sulauk\u0117 daug neigiam\u0173 reakcij\u0173, Konstitucinio teismo i\u0161vados parod\u0117, kad po truput\u012f atsisakome atgyvenusios \u0161eimos s\u0105vokos. Ir tai jokia ne gr\u0117sm\u0117, o galimyb\u0117 Lietuvai, nes m\u016bs\u0173 netolerancija atsiperka labai brangiai.<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><br><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size:12.499999999999998pt;font-family:Arial;color:#7a7a7a;background-color:transparent;font-weight:400;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre;white-space:pre-wrap;\">Lietuva, netur\u0117dama toleranti\u0161ko partneryst\u0117s instituto, ma\u017eina savo, kaip konkurencingos valstyb\u0117s \u0161ansus. Stamb\u016bs investuotojai, besirinkdami pl\u0117tros ta\u0161kus, atsi\u017evelgia ne tik \u012f ekonominius rodiklius, bet ir \u012f socialinius. Vis dar homofobi\u0161ka Lietuvos teisin\u0117 sistema tikrai neprideda mums ta\u0161k\u0173. Galiausiai, tolerancijos tr\u016bkumas skatina emigracij\u0105, kurios bijome kaip velnio, bet darome per ma\u017eai, kad tai stabdytume. Jauni, talentingi, netradicin\u0117s orientacijos \u017emon\u0117s, logi\u0161ka, mieliau rinksis kitas Vakar\u0173 Europos valstybes, kur savo santykius gal\u0117s teisi\u0161kai reglamentuoti<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><br><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size:12.499999999999998pt;font-family:Arial;color:#7a7a7a;background-color:transparent;font-weight:400;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre;white-space:pre-wrap;\">Ar visi \u0161ie argumentai nauji? Tikrai ne, apie civilin\u0117s partneryst\u0117s poreik\u012f \u0161nekam ne pirmus metus, ta\u010diau politin\u0117s valios \u0161iam klausimui Lietuvoje vis dar tr\u016bksta. Galb\u016bt netr\u016bkt\u0173, jeigu suvoktume, kad klausimas lie\u010dia visus. Civilin\u0117 partneryst\u0117 lygiai taip pat aktuali ir heteroseksualioms poroms, kurios pasirenka negyventi santuokoje, bet siekia kokybi\u0161ko interes\u0173 gynimo sau ir savo vaikams. Toki\u0173 por\u0173 Lietuvoje kasmet daug\u0117ja, k\u0105 darysime, kad u\u017etikrintume jiems lygyb\u0119 prie\u0161 \u012fstatym\u0105?<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><br><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size:12.499999999999998pt;font-family:Arial;color:#7a7a7a;background-color:transparent;font-weight:400;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre;white-space:pre-wrap;\">Kai \u0161iandien sk\u0173sit\u0117s savo antrajai pusei d\u0117l per ma\u017eai \u012fmantrios dovanos Valentino dienos proga, prisiminkite, kad \u0161imtai por\u0173 Lietuvoje susiduria su daug didesn\u0117mis problemomis. Diskriminacija ir lygyb\u0117s prie\u0161 \u012fstatym\u0105 neu\u017etikrinimas \u2013 daugumos homoseksuali\u0173 por\u0173 kasdienyb\u0117. Ir net jeigu \u0161is klausimas didel\u0117s dalies \u017emoni\u0173 nelie\u010dia asmeni\u0161kai, vadovautis daugumos principu \u010dia tiesiog negalima. Tik u\u017etikrindami ma\u017eum\u0173 teises priart\u0117sime prie demokrati\u0161kos ir vakarieti\u0161kos valstyb\u0117s modelio. Ir vaik\u0173 tokioje valstyb\u0117je tikrai niekas nevogs.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><br><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size:12.499999999999998pt;font-family:Arial;color:#7a7a7a;background-color:transparent;font-weight:400;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre;white-space:pre-wrap;\">Teres\u0117 \u0160kutait\u0117<\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><br><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight:normal;\" id=\"docs-internal-guid-d4b9d48a-7fff-28d3-a912-f35c1fee7ea7\"><\/span><\/p><p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"line-height:1.38;background-color:#ffffff;margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt;\"><span style=\"font-size:12.499999999999998pt;font-family:Arial;color:#7a7a7a;background-color:transparent;font-weight:400;font-style:normal;font-variant:normal;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;white-space:pre;white-space:pre-wrap;\">Lietuvos liberalaus jaunimo pirminink\u0117<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>2019-02-14 \u0160iandien minime \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0117li\u0173 dien\u0105 \u2013 \u0161luojam i\u0161 prekybos centr\u0173 g\u0117li\u0173 puok\u0161tes, vaik\u0161tom \u012f romanti\u0161kus pasimatymus ir dovanojam vieni kitiems sald\u017eias dovanas. Ta\u010diau visoje \u0161ioje \u0161irdeli\u0173 j\u016broje pamir\u0161tame, kad ne visos Lietuvos poros gali lygiaverti\u0161kai d\u017eiaugtis laisve myl\u0117ti. Taigi kada, jei ne per meil\u0117s dien\u0105, geriausia kalb\u0117ti apie civilin\u0117s partneryst\u0117s poreik\u012f? Homoseksuali\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 pad\u0117tis visuomen\u0117je [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1177","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","entry"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1177","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1177"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1177\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1200,"href":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1177\/revisions\/1200"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1177"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1177"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laisve.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1177"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}